Kitty, I know a little about what this relates to, I think, but just know that the term 'limbo' normally relates to being stuck between places. There is that other place - you just have to get there, which you will do in time.
Miss Kitty, when my ex and I were divorcing I was forced to live in the same house with him another 4 months, talk about being in limbo. I knew there would be an end somewhere in there but it certainly didn't make for any pleasant days, and even though I was really leaping off a cliff into the unknown when I finally moved it was the most freeing leap I had ever made. Things will sort themselves out, have faith. Hugs-
Whew Kitty...this made my heart sink a little as I understand where you are at this point. I wish things can be easier but no, you have to go through the process and endure for a while. Just be positive and look forward to your freedom. I am happy and quite envious (waah).