I was never big but I see myself as big so I would starve myself. Now I am more healthy in that area since I learned not to impress others. But it is part of our disability. Either way we have to come to terms with it. Hugs to you
The truth is that slim people are just as unhappy with themselves ... once they get to the weight they thought they wanted to be, they find some other body hang up to focus on. The words we tell to ourselves are the only ones that should matter, and they should be kind words. Easier said than done Em, I know xx
Far too many people know this feeling or know someone in these shoes and that is absolutely ridiculous to me; but I think youv've captured it well and I hope people who come across this are able to see that those around them know and care/worry in case they need help or advice.