Em, as hard as it is, this person is no longer in your life, his words are just that, words. Do not take them to heart. Cast them aside. Easier said then done, I totally get that...but you are a survivor! He gave you his worse and you still stand. That shows how strong you really are. You have found new love, one that makes your heart sing, he will never have that! He is a miserable little tw##, who will never know true happiness and thinks hes big man because he can beat on a female. Hes smaller than a flea on a flea, not worth your time or energy . Minimize him because he is so not worth your precious time! Hugs my dear-
As Brenda says, Em, discard this man and the memories from your life as he and they are worth nothing else. It is hard, but that's the ultimate victory because it proves he no longer has power over you.