Hello,

I suppose that there really is a dreadful irony about this poem or, indeed, the situation.
People who are strong mentally often have to make tough decisions, but being strong doesn't mean we do not suffer because of those decisions.
That saying about 'the right way isn't the easiest' comes to mind. Your strength is doing the right thing, but the right thing is often tough to bear.

Thoughtful write. All the best,
Ben