Why "buts"???

  • NobodyKnowsItButMe
    11 years ago

    She says she loves me...yet, every time she utters this, there is always a "but"??? Why is it so? How do I know why she does this? Why is she acting so weird at times? I feel so alone, dejected & isolated......

  • Kate
    11 years ago

    Maybe she is insecure about the way she loves you and is afraid to let it be known how much she does. These "buts" add a sense of not being completely attached. Maybe she is having doubts and she really needs you to talk to her to help her see through it. A lot of people do that.
    Try talking to her about and see why she does it. It is the easiest solution.

  • NobodyKnowsItButMe
    10 years ago

    Thanks a lot, Kate! :) It really helped me! :)

  • Kate
    10 years ago

    Not a problem dear :) it is what I am here for. If you ever need someone to talk to, I'm your gal :)