"tote" them in my face?
I don't under stand that word means
"to carry a heavy weight or load"

To convey (make an idea, impression, or feeling known or understandable to someone) something substantial.

It is easy to see you are in a dark place right now, LW.

You have a place here, at RH to come in and seek comfort and support, ok?

Things will get better, I promise:)

Take care girl,

5/5 Ingrid