My father has just now came back into my life i don't know what to do
should i tell him to stay out of my life or give him a second chance or just tell him to stay and be apart of my life what would you do?I've always hoped he would come back into my life but just don't know if I'm ready for him to be apart of my life he's already got two stepchildren in his life so does he want me in his life what would you do
Hmm...my mom left my biological dad when i was a baby and got together with the guy that is my "daddy" now when i was seven she told me that that guy that ive been calling daddy all these years is actually not my dad...when i was 11 my mom asked me if i was ready to meet him cause he wanted to see me...i told her NO i said that he didnt want to see me for 11 years then he couldnt see me now...after a year had passed i all of the sudden had a lot of ?'s 4- HIM and i told my mom to set up a meeting w/ him...she came back to me and told me that in the past few months he had died...now im almost 14 and ALL those ?'s r still there and i regret never gettin to meet him...i think u should give ur dad a chance because U might not get another chance...well thats my advice hope it sum wut helps my e-mail is firstname.lastname@example.org if u want to talk more---natalie
Hey you know what your feeling I was at the same stage you are at just a year ago, I hadnt seen my dad in 15 years but in ways he was always apart of my life but he was never around. But ever since I was little I had felt like apart of me was missing. The day I seen my dad was one of the best days of my life. Cause when I went to hug him I felt like I was complete again. I dont know if this will help but if you love him you should give him another chance. Cause he may also hurt for what he did to you, and might want to fix the pain he caused.
Wow yeah I can relate....
but to the point...you have the power for either descision..but if you decide to get rid of him and keep him out of your life your going to live your life with a hate for your father....when he wanted another chance....my father was and still is an alcoholic and did some stupid things like cheat on my mother with our neighbor who is now my stepmother....and yeah things went pretty down hill for a while and I fell into depressing (i.e cutting, suicide attempts......just some pretty stupid things...) but the fact is try to love your father though he has 2 step children (same as in my family) because if he wants to be back in your life....and if you ever cried because you wanted a father....you should try it again...never shut him out...because one day he might change....and he still loves you even though he has two other children....if you want to talk any more my email is :
Copaunitedstar1820@yahoo.com or you can just email me through this site...