:::I need some advise:::

ok, i have ben with my boyfriend for about.....umm a little over a month. we do things but only wen were by ourselves.. like wen people are around he just stands next to me. and it looks like were just friends.. i dont want him to be all over me but at least he can grab my hand or somethin... i mean gosh! but i dont wanna make the first move because maybe he dont want me to ya kno? what should i do..?

anyone???

That tells me that:

a) He is shy or nervous when around others.

or

b) Is not shy/nervous and just isn't into you like he should be.

Either way, you should talk with him and let him know how you feel. Use phrasings like "It bothers me when you (give behavior you don't like)".

Open and honest communication is the foundation for a successful/longlasting relationship/friendship.

Good luck. :)

-JP