Help, i have my long lost dad's phone #...what do i do?!?!

get to know him first. Other wise you will blame your family and in the end things will be all arguments. If you get to know him at least things will start off on a new foot.

Either way it will be hard.

My "dad" showed up at my door when I was 14 and I did everything I could to go live with him. Well he turned out to be exactly what my mom always described him as. I havn't seen him since I was 17. Just be Careful and get to know him before you jump to wanting to move to another state to be with him.

I whole heartedly agree with Jacki. Take your time. Wait until youre 18 to make a life changing decision. For now arrange some time to go be with him for a week or a month over the summer. Something easy and small ya know?

Just have a think about what you want to do after you have calmed down. You will know what is right because it will feel right. Love Emma xxx