Which is for dian?

live like every second counts or
live like tomorrow never comes?

which is for dian?

do everything whole heartedly w/o regret or
do nothing except to breath heavily to dent?

I choose for dian...

never let anyone or anything to stop you from getting what is right for you...

I really like your direct, honest and no-nonsense approach in this poem. I find this very appealing.