If it were for any other woman, no, i would not do it.Because its Judith, yes, i know her, we had something special all those years ago.She regrets the descision she made then and has suffered for it. We still have a chance to be together and we are taking it.Its not nice for the other people involved and maybe we are just being selfish, but i know if i dont do this then i will never be happy and i dont want to go to my grave saying what if.