Ouch Alex! For the majority of people, they didn't choose their religion, they were brought up with it, and so their faith just feels normal and right. It's hard then for them to understand when a family member questions that and chooses not to believe as they do. But to hold a grudge and tell you you'll burn forever seems especially cruel and extremely contradictory of their faith?
I hope in time they can learn to accept your decision. :-) x
=^.^=

I have to agree with kitty cat lady. All the best and Merry Christmas

Alex, I hope one day your family members become more understanding of your choices and beliefs. It's not for another to judge and disdain just because it doesn't reflect their own beliefs. Stay strong and keep in your mind, it's only a moment in time...