Well, its good you're laying the line somewhere,.. hopefully for your sake he it doesnt have to come to such desperate measures.. im not even sure if ur still with him.. very true about the trust thing.. and i can really relate to some of this... i have cheated as well,.. and i never did it again,.. but then again she was and is the love of my life that i cheated on.. i think thats when u know u really love someone,.. wqhen u put up with that.. but yes, u do have to set boundries and adhere to them.. this is ur second read,.. im wondering if u have any consistently rhyming poems.. pZ