"What am I doing wrong
when friendships my lead"

I'm not sure I understand what the phrase 'when friendships my lead' means... I might just be missing more of the sentence or something. Or it might be a typo, dunno, so I figured I'd mention it.

I liked this poem, it had enough unconventional imagery that it passed the message along without running into cliches. I hope I figured out the meaning okay, which is that there is a friend who is attracted to you, and you want to know how to help them get over it, or something along those lines.

I read it as lets just be friends nothing more
friendships my lead
thats where this conversation is heading thats all just friends
i love the poetics of that line , meaning you don't have to say alot to say alot
and sorry about the pheromones , thats life everybody has them