Wow! what an unexpected ending, but if this is true....don't marry someone if you're not in love. It isn't fair to them. There is a line in a song that goes like this, "Do you really want to give your life to thinking you found true love, when it hasn't found you?" It's about a girl telling a guy she could be his everything and make HIM happy, but she's not in love with him, and she knows that's not fair.
Don't know why, but I thought I'd share that.
Charisma*

In a funny sort of way (though i'm not engaged or anything) i have before left someone i really did love for someone else... and these days i really do wonder what could have been if i'd kept them. i relate in a strange way. its a horrible feeling, and an awesome poem.