I been there before my family is the same way too. some friends i have are like that well the ones that i helped but refuse to help me in returnn and took me for granted i just didnt talk to them or wanna have anything to do with them anymore becuase someone who is stingy is selfish. they only care about them selves. and i was told once that you can have so many aquaintances and very few friends. just be careful who your friends with and choose your friends wisely

This is so true...
I've been able to open my eyes and see them for their true colors..
But yea just learn to choose wisely and don't expect much unless you see they mean well...