There is a difference between HEARING what someone is saying and LISTENING to what they are saying.
Don't be a hearer, be a listener.

My head is no longer talking to my heart, and vice versa. What's the point? They don't listen to each other!

It is often the ones with the widest smile, who carry the largest tears.
It is often the most confident who hide away.
It is often the ones with the loudest laughs that cry the hardest.
It is often the most open, that carry the biggest secrets.