If you love something so much, but see that its not in the best interest your better off to let it go, and be miserable.

If you walk away from your troubles now they will find you later.
So it is better to face them now rather then let them come back to haunt you.

If we deny love that is given to us, if we refuse to give love because we fear the pain of loss, then our lifes will be empty, our loss greater.