Loving someone deeply and not knowing where they are!

A couple months ago I ran away with my boyfriend who is 25 and I am almost 17... anyway we were gone for a couple days, then we got caught at a hotel, got arrested and he went to jail for a couple days, also, we got charged with possesion of drugs and we can't speak to each other. My parents moved me away and I can't get in contact with him. It kills me everyday to have to wake up knowing I won't be in his arms. We were truly in love and I want it back so severly bad. The last thing he said to me before he got taken away was "I love you, Clarity" and I said I love you too. That was the last time i saw or spoke to him. I just wish I knew if he was alright.....

Hello run away--drugs--arressted--Geez be thankful your parents moved you away

I know moving me away from all that helped me with the drugs since I am off of them 49 days now. I was trying to run away from them... but they followed with us. I definitly learned my lesson though, but I still love him.

Well first, keep staying off of them, and every day you are be proud of yourself. You need to figure out if this guy would be a bad influence on you more than a good one--yes you can't help who yo u fall in love with, but always know the difference between healthy and destructive love

True. It was definitly more destructive than healthy but if we can overcome and get through this then we can make our realationship stronger, sober and healthy. but thats not going to be for another year till I turn 18...

Dear Clarity,
I am happy for you because you want to change your life better. Congratulations gir! Smart decision. :)

Well, what I could say..I have been in same kind of situations.. I know you feel hurt.. You love him, and he loves you..

But you know Clarity, you need to see couple of facts.. Why your parents moved away from him and you can not contact with him? They care about you. They love you. They don't want their daughter to get in troubles.

If you see this escaping-drugs-arrested thing in your parents eyes... I think any parent would be worried in this situation..

But remember...you can not run away. Running away is not mature behaving. I know you are young, but I believe you are a smart girl, and understand "what you leave behind you, you will find in front you." We can not change past..or escape our problems.

If you really love him and he loves you...you will find a way to be together. "when there is a will, there is a way". And it is not running away. He will find out later or you will find him. And hopefully then you both are still in love and have some plans together to build a future.

Yes, waiting a year or more can feel long time to wait, but think this a chance to develope yourself darling..

And I am sure your parents will change their thinking away about him if you show you take resposobility of your own actions and he does the same.

I wish your love gives you power to get your life in the order you want.

All the best for you and him.

-Noor-

Dear Clarity,
I am happy for you because you want to change your life better. Congratulations gir! Smart decision. :)

Well, what I could say..I have been in same kind of situations.. I know you feel hurt.. You love him, and he loves you..

But you know Clarity, you need to see couple of facts.. Why your parents moved away from him and you can not contact with him? They care about you. They love you. They don't want their daughter to get in troubles.

If you see this escaping-drugs-arrested thing in your parents eyes... I think any parent would be worried in this situation..

But remember...you can not run away. Running away is not mature behaving. I know you are young, but I believe you are a smart girl, and understand "what you leave behind you, you will find in front you." We can not change past..or escape our problems.

If you really love him and he loves you...you will find a way to be together. "when there is a will, there is a way". And it is not running away. He will find out later or you will find him. And hopefully then you both are still in love and have some plans together to build a future.

Yes, waiting a year or more can feel long time to wait, but think this a chance to develope yourself darling..

And I am sure your parents will change their thinking away about him if you show you take resposobility of your own actions and he does the same.

I wish your love gives you power to get your life in the order you want.

All the best for you and him.

-Noor-

Dear Clarity,
I am happy for you because you want to change your life better. Congratulations gir! Smart decision. :)

Well, what I could say..I have been in same kind of situations.. I know you feel hurt.. You love him, and he loves you..

But you know Clarity, you need to see couple of facts.. Why your parents moved away from him and you can not contact with him? They care about you. They love you. They don't want their daughter to get in troubles.

If you see this escaping-drugs-arrested thing in your parents eyes... I think any parent would be worried in this situation..

But remember...you can not run away. Running away is not mature behaving. I know you are young, but I believe you are a smart girl, and understand "what you leave behind you, you will find in front you." We can not change past..or escape our problems.

If you really love him and he loves you...you will find a way to be together. "when there is a will, there is a way". And it is not running away. He will find out later or you will find him. And hopefully then you both are still in love and have some plans together to build a future.

Yes, waiting a year or more can feel long time to wait, but think this a chance to develope yourself darling..

And I am sure your parents will change their thinking away about him if you show you take resposobility of your own actions and he does the same.

I wish your love gives you power to get your life in the order you want.

All the best for you and him.

-Noor-

Dear Clarity,
I am happy for you because you want to change your life better. Congratulations gir! Smart decision. :)

Well, what I could say..I have been in same kind of situations.. I know you feel hurt.. You love him, and he loves you..

But you know Clarity, you need to see couple of facts.. Why your parents moved away from him and you can not contact with him? They care about you. They love you. They don't want their daughter to get in troubles.

If you see this escaping-drugs-arrested thing in your parents eyes... I think any parent would be worried in this situation..

But remember...you can not run away. Running away is not mature behaving. I know you are young, but I believe you are a smart girl, and understand "what you leave behind you, you will find in front you." We can not change past..or escape our problems.

If you really love him and he loves you...you will find a way to be together. "when there is a will, there is a way". And it is not running away. He will find out later or you will find him. And hopefully then you both are still in love and have some plans together to build a future.

Yes, waiting a year or more can feel long time to wait, but think this a chance to develope yourself darling..

And I am sure your parents will change their thinking away about him if you show you take responsobility of your own actions and he does the same.

I wish your love gives you power to get your life in the order you want.

All the best for you and him.

-Noor-

Dear Clarity,
I am happy for you because you want to change your life better. Congratulations gir! Smart decision. :)

Well, what I could say..I have been in same kind of situations.. I know you feel hurt.. You love him, and he loves you..

But you know Clarity, you need to see couple of facts.. Why your parents moved away from him and you can not contact with him? They care about you. They love you. They don't want their daughter to get in troubles.

If you see this escaping-drugs-arrested thing in your parents eyes... I think any parent would be worried in this situation..

But remember...you can not run away. Running away is not mature behaving. I know you are young, but I believe you are a smart girl, and understand "what you leave behind you, you will find in front you." We can not change past..or escape our problems.

If you really love him and he loves you...you will find a way to be together. "when there is a will, there is a way". And it is not running away. He will find out later or you will find him. And hopefully then you both are still in love and have some plans together to build a future.

Yes, waiting a year or more can feel long time to wait, but think this a chance to develope yourself darling..

And I am sure your parents will change their thinking away about him if you show you take responsobility of your own actions and he does the same.

I wish your love gives you power to get your life in the order you want.

All the best for you and him.

-Noor-

Dear Clarity,
I am happy for you because you want to change your life better. Congratulations gir! Smart decision. :)

Well, what I could say..I have been in same kind of situations.. I know you feel hurt.. You love him, and he loves you..

But you know Clarity, you need to see couple of facts.. Why your parents moved away from him and you can not contact with him? They care about you. They love you. They don't want their daughter to get in troubles.

If you see this escaping-drugs-arrested thing in your parents eyes... I think any parent would be worried in this situation..

But remember...you can not run away. Running away is not mature behaving. I know you are young, but I believe you are a smart girl, and understand "what you leave behind you, you will find in front you." We can not change past..or escape our problems.

If you really love him and he loves you...you will find a way to be together. "when there is a will, there is a way". And it is not running away. He will find out later or you will find him. And hopefully then you both are still in love and have some plans together to build a future.

Yes, waiting a year or more can feel long time to wait, but think this a chance to develope yourself darling..

And I am sure your parents will change their thinking away about him if you show you take responsobility of your own actions and he does the same.

I wish your love gives you power to get your life in the order you want.

All the best for you and him.

-Noor-

Thank you so much!!
Your response gives me hope once more that one day if we are in love then it will be. I know that running away is very inmature, I did it once before that time... but now I know that when you try to run away from your problems, they come with you because it stays inside you. I found out how to deal with my problems from the inside and not run away anymore.