Dilemma

There is a problem...

I am in love with this great guy. He proposed and I said yes... I am getting to thinking... I got kicked out and I live with him. We fight a lot. I am not sure if it is the fact we are ALWAYS around each other or is it that it simply isn't going to work....

I have recently become attached to my friend Steven.. I met him when I moved to this school last year, and we are inseparable. I know he has feeling for me.. He even asked me to prom.. But I am with my guy.. but we fight all the time. He blows me off for World of Warcraft at night RIGHT when he gets off of work at 11 pm.... I don't know what to do... I think I am starting to develop feelings for Steven....

He is so understanding and is always there for me.. I can't get him out of my mind lately.. I am starting to think IO can't get married yet.. I am only 17.. I should wait a few years.. But he doesn't give me the light of day sometimes.. I love him, but I need more than an I love you whenever it is convenient to him... Am I wrong?

I read an artical where this couple was married and the wife introduced her husband to that game...they got divorced because he became a huge addict. I know it doesn't give advice to your situation...but yeah

Seriously, you're young, get out and live life

I know I am young.. I realize this now.. But he completely ignores me and wants to talk to his ex girlfriend and wants to hang out with her.. She still wants him

Oh, World of Warcraft. Trust me, I feel your pain.

First of all, you seem smart enough to know that you're too young to be getting married. So I would suggest calling off the engagement, at least. Then you need to decide whether you want to pursue the relationship at all.

Now, the game thing. That just plain sucks. You need to talk to him, and explain to him why it's causing problems and will continue to cause problems in your relationship. You'd think it's obvious, but whatever. He probably won't agree with you, but if he's not willing to compromise, or at least chill out a little about it, then you shouldn't be with him. Otherwise you will spend the rest of your life losing to a video game, and I'm sure you already know how much that hurts. Trust me, it's not worth it. But give him a chance if he's willing to take it.

If you decide to end this relationship, then you can look at this other guy. But until that happens, you should just stay away. Don't put yourself in a position to make things worse for your current boyfriend and yourself.

Good luck with everything, particularly the game/attention thing. My boyfriend and I were able to work something out (and he was the ultimate dork on there; he played since the day it came out), so I'm sure you will be too if he's willing. :)