Michelle Needs Advice

Hello, I am sad and I need advice.

So I have a neighbor who I thought I used to be friends wiith. He was my only friend in the world.

One day he randomly told me that I am weird and that I do not fit in and never would and that he does not like me anymore. He said many more mean and nasty things to.

It hurt me very very much inside and I did not know what to do or what I did. That was 4 months ago and we did not talk since.

Yesterday he left aletter in my mail box because he knows I check the mail at 3:00 on the dot every day except sunday.

I read it and he said

Ellie,
Hey bud, im sorry. I said a lot of things that I did not mean because I was going through some tough stuff and I was annoyed by everyone. I miss you though and im worried about you being lonely n havin nobody to talk to. Please call me or write or hell, just come over.

I love ya, u know that.

Ky.

So, what do I do? Do I forgive him or just continue to ignore him?

I have never experienced this before.
Have any of you?
What did you do?
What should I do?

HELP!

Forgive him. but....it won't be the way it was before. you have to rebuild all the trust again. so if it's worth it to you to rebuild that trust...then go for it. if not. don't.

*hugs*

you'll be ok either way.

<3 gabby

I would say forgive him. He's just a boy trying to survive in this world just like everyone else. I'd be careful at first when talking to him and stuff. Make sure he's not going to hurt you again. If it seems all safe to you, then go ahead, try and forget what he did, and just move on. =)
It's happened to me, a lot actually. Everytime I just forgive the person, and trust that it'll all work out for the best. When it has happened to me, I just took it easy going back to being their friend, and once things seemed normalish, i put all my trust back in them and hoped they wouldnt hurt me. and so far none of them have. =)

I hope it works out for you and Kyle! *hugs*

Since when aren't you giving advice?

What happened?
*is confused*

Ok.
sorry for being nosy.

Huh?
i am like...me and who??????
does it have to do with friends or crushes.
cuz i might know what we're talking about.

Oh, god.
that wasn't your fault, olivia. honestly. don't blame yourself for that. i shouldn't have said anything. and everybody ((not just you)) said i should. and i knew i shouldn't. but i did.

so that's my bad. not yours.

Nopes. i mean it.
<3

Thank you for the advice everyone!

I think I will write him a letter and put it in his mail box.