Please someone help me...i need advice

Today i broke up with my boyfriend. we were together for 1 year and 1 month. The reason as to why i broke up with him is because he lies to me like about everything. I love him, but i did what was best for me, but it hurts so much. I miss him. How can i let this go, how can i move on? What do i do...can any one help me. i feel so lost and alone. )-;

Well, honestly, it sounds like you can pretty much answer your own question. You were smart and strong enough to break up with him when you new it was right. So I think you are also smart and strong enough to know how to move on.
Good luck!

From what I've read, honey, you're gonna be just fine. You can't expect to make yourself heal and get over it faster -- the fact that you were able to push away your love says that you're a lot stronger than a lot of people these days. And with that, I know you're gonna be just fine. The pain will last for a while, but the best thing to do instead of trying to ignore it?

Go hang out with friends. Or if you don't wish to be around people, take some time alone -- take a walk, listen to music and just allow yourself some peace and relaxation.

It's the perfect solution. It worked for my friends, and it worked for me. Just don't let your ex drag you back in with hypnotic words or what seems like sweet gestures. They tend to do that quite often, I find -.-

Thanks guys, yea you're right, its just so hard seeing me without him. I feel so alone. It's like i turn, expecting to see him, and he's not there. i just miss him so much. But i know i can get throught his. I just gotta be strong.

thanks for the advice! i really do feel better.

You've made the right choice by understanding that you had to do what's best for you. You were unhappy and he was untrustworthy - it's going to hurt for a while but it's better than being with him and having his lies build up and hurting you more

Have a girly night in with your friends - nothing wrong with chats, chocolate, films and pillows!

Thanks for commenting! Yes it still hurts, but i know that it was the right thing to do. I am slowly moving on, or trying to anyway.

but thanks for your advice, it helped

Yea exactly! ^^^

It's going to take time, and for you to open up to new people.

My brother is dating a girl who became my best friend. Her name is Samantha. She's a wonderfully nice girl, and if people took the time to find that out, they would realize she's a great person. But my brother has been dating her for I'd have to say 18 months now. He treats her terribly to the point I'm ashamed of him.

He makes her put his socks on for him, get him food, he tells her she's ugly, he tells her he'll break up with her if she doesn't let him have sex with other girls. She's only 16 years old and she's given him everything she can.

He's degraded her to the point where she feels she can earn no other man, and I encourage her to break up with him. The thing is, she won't even though she knows it's best for her.

So in the end, you know it's best for you, you have to keep telling yourself that. In the end, do you really think you're going to end up completely alone?

Take a long hot shower, cry as much as you want, but remember not to cry because you did something for yourself. Cry because you spent so much time on someone who wasn't good enough for you.

Thanks emily for sharing that with me! Well my ex wasn't like that, but i did give him everything i could and he just took it all for granted, you know.
but thanks for replaying!

and xXBloodDropXx, thanks for replying. Your advice was much needed and it helped.

thanks again

Unfortunatly babe,
Its not a matter of how to let go, Its a matter of it you want to, an it takes alot of time to, an the time is takes is very painful and hard to get through best thing is to get out heaps
dont leave yourself in the position where you will be thinking about him,
delete all photos.
Erase him completely.
With out trust, a relationship wont work.
be proud of yourself.
Keep your head high..
An keep walking no matter how much it hurts..

(L)

Thanks i needed to hear that ^^^. I do want to let go and move on, its just so hard. But i will keep walking and i won't turn back, even if it hurts.

thanks everyone who replied

Thats okay=]
an btw.
Your pic is so true,
"sometimes being strong isnt holding on but letting go"
PM me or anything if you need
cause relationship break ups are hard
some days ur okay some your sad an some you jus feel like dying.
Always here if you need.

x

Thanks i will take you up on that offer sometime i think okay ;-)

and your pic is great too, i really like it!

Thanks again!

It will hurt for a while but think about it, would you really want to be with someone who lies to you?

You did the right thing by breaking up with him.

All relationships deserve honesty and trust - Get your friends around for a girly night in (or out) and let it all out.

Just remember - you did the RIGHT thing, you deserve much more than lies.

X

Thanks HUman angel, yes you're right. I don't want to be with someone who constantly lies. I just really miss him. And i'm trying to move on, but i can't treat the wound before i stop the bleeding.

thanks for your advice!