I guess its not a secret!

Ok so liike me and my boyfriend have been dating 2 months sunday and like i rele like him i mean i love him ik 2 months isnt much but i do i just can tell by the way he makes me feel....so we've done some "stuff" ok personal stuff that i dont want everyone at school knoing...ok well like at first no one knew then lately ive notice alot of the guys know.....and i question myself if maybe he does this stuff with me to tell all the guys idk but i need advise...i mean its not tons of guys but still i dont like it. BUT i guess i never told him to not tell anyone but its because i figured i shouldnt have to because its PERSONAL!

Well, how many guys? are they his close friends? do you tell your close friends or not?

If he's blab-mouthing about it though, that's going behind your back without asking how you feel about it. which is bad.

Yah their his friends but idk i guess i prolly should talk to him because i cant jsut be mad at him i need to tell him my thots on it but one of the guys he told had a big mouth and he knows it but told him anyways!

Then that's insensitive isn't it?, he didn't talk to you about how you felt about it, and then he told a bunch of guys.

did you tell your friends or not?

You need to talk to him about this. Tell him that some things are personal and belong just between the two of you. If he can't respect that, then you have a lot of thinking to do.

I only told my best friend and we tell each other everything but we dont tell ne one else....

Yah ='/

You cant completely blame the guy...... maybe hes just proud, which there is nothing wrong with it. Give him a heads up and tell him how you feel about it. Chances are it was his hormones taking charge and he will realize it

I guess its not that i care ppl know im jsut worried people will call me a slut because thats how my school is....i mean im not that kinda girl that goes around with all theses guys i love him and hope to be with him a very looooong time

Well I think that you are to into what other people say and you know what if it really is love that you feel for this gut than you should be that worried. Just ignore what everyone else has to say.

My advice: Don't ever do anything you don't want people to find out. Truth will always come up, sooner or later.

If you feel bad about people knowing what kind of things you do then I think you should not doing them.

Some people are just more open about those kind of things than others. Point it out to him if it makes you feel uncomfortable- I'm sure he doesn't even realize.

No ive decided not to say ne thing ive got to learn that i cant do sumthen and hope no one finds out its life! and idc wat ppl think

If it's bothering you, you can't just not say anything about it. Pretend like everything is alright.

Just sit down with the poor guy and tell him what's up. That you don't want him telling other people about it and things like that should just stay between you two. It won't hurt him to keep it to himself.

No i dont care i mean ik now how it got around...he told one guy thats his friend but like this guy has kinda of a big mouth and he told another big mouth guy so tahts how it got around its its fine everything will be ok hopefully.

Well.. obviously you do care because you created an entire thread about it.

It may have gotten around, but I definitely wouldn't want my business spread around the school. The only people I trust with what I do in a relationship is my boyfriend and my bestest of the best friends.

Just tell him that whenever you do something else, to keep it to himself. Things like that really should be kept between you two.

I think the person who you should be mad at is your guys friend...for blabbing it to someone else...he didnt do anything wrong by telling his close friend since you did the same thing. only difference is that your friend kept the things to her self.

i would be really upset if everyone else at school knew about the personal stuff me and my boyfriend do when we're together. but anyhoo...like i said i think your mad at the wrong person....your bf didnt do anything wrong by telling his best friend.........go tell off the other guy :P :D

Yah ik im not mad at him im fine and my best friends a guy lol not a girl

Lol...sorry :P

Ahaha its kk ik its unusual

If you don't tell him when you are uncomfortable with something then you're going to end up with problems in your relationship. It's best to talk about it, even if you're not mad.

Ik i have we're fine its fine. =)