Friends with benefits

What's your opinion?

One person will always get emotionally attached, if not both, unless they are not close at all, and altogether, heartless. there's absolutely no point having sex with a friend without a relationship just cause you're "horny".

It's shit.

Agreed!
it's shit

sex always has some emotion in it.
you will most definatly start to get feelings for your "friend with benefits" or vice versa

but to be fair, relationships are made some of the time because of them

maybe it does have some benefits ................

too complicated for me

OH....WOW!!
I READ THIS AND JUST THE TOPIC I WANTED TO TALK ABOUT!!!
Ok i have just agreed to be friends with benefits with my guy friend... but I think that i will get emotionally attached.... so.... i dont know what to do!! We just agreed on doing this last night so I know this weekend will be the first weekend we hook up like that... i dont know what to expect... i will bring an update next week.... this is complicated!!

I have a friend with benefit right now. he was my friend, then he was my boyfriend, then we didnt talkfor a month after we broke up, then we just became fwb like...what....4 months ago?

ppl find it gross, but i dont. so -shrug-

and yes, someone will always be emotionally attached. but i am already. never got over him from dating him...but i understand nothing will come of it, so i'll live.

U should only be friends with benifits if ur about to go out wit that person otherwise its just sick

Eek... hard one

well ive had a good experience with it. me and my friend were like that and we both got emotionally attached and started dating. so it worked out for me, but see my friend had a friend with benefits and she got pregnant. and her 'friend' wants nothing to do with her. so i mean its all up to the person. you have to decide for yourself if you want to.

for me, id never do it again. its not worth the risk of getting hurt.

Blah.. friends with benefits.

My ex boyfriend Ray and I broke up MONTHS ago. We got into a horrible arguement and then never talked to each other again. So finally, 4 or 5 months later, he starts texting me again apologizing. And then says that he still cares for me, wants to stay my friend, but wanted us to be "friends with benefits"...

I think it's a bunch of bull. I only do things with the person that I have a relationship with, and that's it. But hey.. if other people want to, then go for it. It's not bothering me. It's just not something I would do.

To each their own, chances are if you are a young'n, in the end you are going to get hurt, even some adults can not detach from that emotional attachment, I just don't want to hear anyone whine about sad or bad out comes because you know going in what you are getting into and if you don't you shouldn't be doing it.

Friends with benefits? If you call getting screwed over emotionally and physically (Benefits!))

I think its lame and why lower yourself to those standards?

Obviously if you go through with it you do not think that much of yourself. Save yourself for someone who cares about you and respects you coz these people just do not care.

it is called using and I wouldnt want to be used! Would you?

xx