A game..over me..

Hello..
Well I've done a previous post on my boyfriend. Him always choosing a computer game over me. Well I did talk to him and he said he would spend more time with me and he told me he stopped flirting with girls on there.
But he came over the last night and he got on the game, and I found out his married to some girl on the game. I didn't say anything to him, but it hurt me..so for the night he was talking to HER, and what about me? Can't he realize what that would do to me, how bad its hurting me? And he told me he stopped flirting with girls, but then I find out his married! Like what the hell? He lied to me and neglected to tell me..
How could he do this to me?
And worst of all he did it in front of me! I mean he was flirting and s**t right in front of me! How could he do that? He knows how that makes me feel..
Please I need help and advice I don't know what to do..I love him with all my heart and I don't want to live without him but he's tearing my heart apart..I just don't know what to do..
Please any help is appreciated.

If you are willing to put up with it, it will continue. If it is bothering you that much, move on.

I agree with ^^^

^ i concur.

Thank you all for the help.
And your right, he's not worth it and he's the stupid one for marrying the girl over the computer
And he'll realize it once he looses me.
Thanks again much appreciated :)

I think I remember your post before. I have a boyfriend who was also very obsessed with a game, so I can definitely sympathize. It's hard.

It's one thing for him to pick his game over you, but it's a whole other deal when he's getting involved in online relationships when he's with you. There's a line- casual flirting? Okay maybe. Pretending to be married? Yeah he's miles past the line.

It's an issue of respect. Things worked out for me because despite many stupid fights, my boyfriend respected the fact that I thought the game was taking over his life. I think you are past the point where things can work out. He thinks you won't leave, so he won't change. You really should leave, as much as it sucks. He has absolutely no respect for you.

Good luck.