Anybody have any advice?

Well i made a disscusion thing with this but
then i saw yours & yeaaaa.
Okaay; so basically, i have a "boyfriend" and longgg story short: he used to be like really sweet; i mean REALLY sweet, until recently when he just changed. and i dont mean gradually; i mean straight up just like that one day sweet the next day just mean and rude!! and whenever i ask him about like why he acts like that or why he treats me the way he does hes just like "i'm stressed" or something like that. and he used to always wanna talk to me; but now there's always some kinda excuse: i have to work late. let me sleep. i'm with my friends. i'm playing a game. and its like getting to me because i really like this guy. and he's just like pushing me away i guess. and the other day he finally called me; and was like i'll call you back, but he never did & he usually always does. and idk he says were still together but its like idk. idk what to do; i was hoping somebody could give me some kind of advice. please!! :(

Either something is going down in his life or he is trying to make you break up with him, either way only he knows the truth.

So what do i do? i mean is there anything i can do?

Well. if i were you i'd ask him straight up without pausing. like 'hey. what's happening w/ u? you've been acting different lately and its really frustrating me. if you dont wanna do anything w/ me or tryna push me away, be a real man and say it to my face instead of making excuses. you know what i feel for you and ive been missing you lately.'

there :] its direct in a way that its polite. just dont pause. cause if u would, there are 80% chances he would say something dumb that would frustrate u even more.

godluck.

Thanks :] ima do it tonight :]

I know exactly what you're going through. exactly.

he was great and sweet in the beginning and then things changed out of nowhere. the thing is we broke up about a week ago or so..yet hes the one who keeps contacting me saying he misses me. i keep trying to talk to him about whats going on with us but he also always says that hes tired and he's sleeping. hes busy and he'll call me later....but nope he never calls back. i call him he doesnt answer.

my friends advice me to just forget him that i dont need to put up with his bull. technically we're not together so i should just stop talking to him and not even answer when he calls.

i think you should really think about whether you want to stay with this guy who doesnt give you what you need and treats you like crap...believe me i know what it feels like and its not great. its hard to just let go but you need to be strong. thats what im trying to do as well.

Aw thanks; and i hope things work out with you as well :)