Just want some advice

Hi.. is it anyone would tell me if this decision is right?

coz i had met a guy online hmm we are miles away w/each other and we've been talking for almost 4 years online, chatting, talking on the phone, texting and hes already sent some presents. and we both fell inlove each other so we plan to settle down. the problem is we didnt see each other yet because how many times he plan to come and see me but he didnt because he cant leave his job,, so i decided im the one to visit him,, is it right if im the one to visit in his place instead he?

pls some advice?

Maybe you should talk to hiom about who should visit first. It is very important that you talk to each other about everything in your realtionship. Also, maybe you should wait unitll he is on vacation si he can spend some time with you. Because if you visit him, he may not be able to spend time with you while you are there.

We aready had talks about this matter

how many times already ask me to visit him there, so now i think and realize maybe im the one coz its long time already and if we both love each other one must be adjust right? but im just scared coz maybe im just gonna regret , i still not seeing him personally but i really feel that he is really a good man,, and i've been always ask a sign to GOD that hes actually answer it.. so pls any advice thanks