Filter Words..How to get rid of them?

I always have a very difficult time trying to get rid of the so called.. "filter words"
you, your, my.. ect ect.
I have never caught on to how to get rid of them, and I always use them.. and then it ruins the flow..

How exactly can I eliminate these "filter words" in my poetry? Any advice?

Thanks in advance.

Thank you!
That does make a lot of sense.. and it doesn't take anything away from the poem.. the's and I's are basically useless.

Wow that really is impressive i think i have to take time and go over a few of my creations and fix them