Help me please!!!!!!!!

You see... there is this guy my friend has a crush on but the problem is i haven't met this guy so i kept on teasing her... but when i saw this guy it's like i already love him.... help please i don't wanna loose my friend and neither the chance to love!!!!!!

Lol you lust him

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I agree with Amanda. It's teens like you who give others a bad name when it comes to love & are the reason why people don't take you seriously but rather as a joke. You throw the word love & it's meaning around casually. You obviously don't know the definition of love... Like Amanda said, to love a person is to know them inside & out. And that, itself, takes time. Love arises & grows from something, not nothing...

You JUST met him & at that FIRST glance you, supposedly, "loved" him. Sorry to say but, evidently, it was only lust. Lust for what exactly? Good looks, a great personality, or perhaps it was a childish response to seeing your friend with him & knowing that she liked him. Frankly, I wouldn't be surprised if it was just that. So, why don't you just forget about him & worry about finding yourself some moral values to follow.

Raging hormones.

Don't dump your friend for this dude. He's hot, sure, and you've met him once. You've been with your friend for how long?
It's not worth it.

But what if i say..... me and my friend is not really that close?

Lol I would say you should not call yourself a friend then, come up with any excuse you like if it makes you feel better about it. I don't see the point in asking the question if you have your mind made up.

Ok tell me what you are feeling to say you already love him

i mean love is a lot deeper than you think

maybe you just went wow my friend found a great guy and
you want to like prove your better than her

how old are you by the way
im guessing in your teens ...

"But what if I say.... Me and my friend is not really that close?"

^ Haha. Is she really not your friend or are you just saying that? It sounds like you're trying to get us to change our opinions, in hopes that we give you the answer that you want to hear & as if to reassure yourself. Did you expect us to say, "Well that changes everything..." Sorry, it doesn't. In fact, now, it proves that not only do you not know the definition of love but you also do not know the definition of friendship either.

I suggest that you forget about the guy, others like him will come & go (I assume for you). Instead stick with your "friends", they make the best life partners.

First you say you don't want to lose your friend and now you're saying that you aren't that close... Do you see the problem that creates?

I mean honestly... Grow up. You only met the guy once and you're saying that you "love" him.

As everyone else has said... love takes time to grow. You love a person for who they are, inside and out. You accept their flaws and love them regardless.

WoW, i'd say stick to being a good friend. But there's someone for everyone and if you think he maybe the one for you then, take a shot at it.

Don't do that to your friend. Guys come and go, friends are forever.

I dont think you can fall in love that quikly....
Love is a strong word and shouldn't be used just aftr meeting someone..... Be a good friend and let her fall in love with him PROPERLY.....