Pregnant

I am 16 years old and today i discovered i may be preganant being on birth control pills i was almost certain i was safe and i always used condoms but i guess things dont always work out eh?
the problem is its not my bf im pregant to as i havent slept with him
i dunno what to do i told him i think i might be pregnant but it happened before we were going ut but truth is i was at a friends house and i had a bitto drink and ended up sleeping with one of my best friends

i need someone to tak to

also opinions abortion or non abortion

You need to find out for sure if you are pregnant.

If you are, talk to your parents, the boy who you suspect is the father and then your boyfriend...do the parents first.

You'll need them on your side.

Best of luck to you.

Plus your doctor can help you alot.

First, you should make sure for certain that you are pregnant. Go to the doctor. If it turns out you are pregnant then you should tell your parents first most importantly.

Second, you should also come clean to your boyfriend about the circumstances in which, you think, you became pregnant. He deserves to know.

Third, like Amanda said, do some research for yourself about abortions. Like any procedure, abortion has risks & effects that can cause many complications of which that can be short-term or long-term, minor, major or severe and physical, emotional or mental. Amanda already mentioned one of the risks. If you'd like me to share with you I do have a list of what some more of those risks & effects could be (unless you want to research them yourself).

I am not for abortion so I am not going to tell you that you should & I know it's your decision so I am not going to tell you that you shouldn't. Before you make a decision make sure you know all the facts about abortion, make sure you are in a calm state of mind so that you can make a rational decision & make sure that it is something that you want to do, cause like Amanda said you're the one who's going to have to live with it for the rest of your life.

Hope that this & what everyone else has said helps. Keep us up to date.

I think you need to find out also. And you need to talk to all the people involved in this.

As for Abortion I'm 100% against it!! You can give it up for adoption if you don't want it but abortion isn't fair in any way. This child deserves the chance to live a life and have a great family. "How do you know this baby couldn't be the one to find the cure for a disease"

Best Of Luck.. Keep us Posted Please :)

And please make the right decision!!