Why does it seem like my fault

  • hehasmyheart
    16 years ago

    I posted a blog saying my husband is abusive has pushed me infront on my boy I have a protective order so he has no contact w his child or me my family is against it they want me to take it back so that the father can see his child that he hasn't done anything ok pushing ur spouse infront of your child is a huge problem and can tramatize a child my mom doesn't want to come over my house to see her grandson cuz she doesn't want to watch someone else that doesn't know his routines to take Care of him I'm so upset my family is against me my husband lives at my parents house right now he doesn't want to go home he wants to watch his boy grow up I know I've done right my co workers and friends all told me I did the right thing just my family doesn't see it my way or my sons way I think they are tryn to put the blame on me my husband put his hands on me I didn't does anyone else agree w me that I did right?

  • hehasmyheart
    16 years ago

    Yup they are on his side... I'm there daughter they don't live my my husband.... How am I going to get his rights signed away? I need a lawyer right? Well I have one so does he need to know what went on?

  • Katlette
    16 years ago

    Yes your lawyer will need to know everything in order for it all to work our the right way.

    Ok, so I know I'm young but people should not be treated like that. And no matter how young your child is, you'd be surprised at the things they remember as they grow up. It may have an effect on your child it may not. But I know it affected me. not too badly I am over coming it. I grew up with it but that only caused me to get used to it. Not the best thing in some cases. But good for you by getting away from that.

    Don't let your family see your boy until they can deal with the fact that you aren't letting your husband raise you boy...