Friend Dilemma

  • Krista
    14 years ago

    Okay. Here's kinda our convo. We texted this morning...blah blah blah.

    Me: Hey am I riding with u today?
    Her: Why don't you ask if you can get a ride with me instead of asking if you are riding with me?
    Me: Okay. Can I get a ride with you plz?
    -No reply-
    Me: Nevermind I'll just ride the bus.
    Her: What?
    Me: Well you never replied so i just assume you said no.
    Her: I said yes.
    Me: Hmm. It must've not sent or something.
    Her: I'll be there in a min.
    Me: I'm already on the bus. Sorry.
    Her: Wow. You're f******* cool dude.
    Me: Sorry, one of my other friends wanted some help with her ipod and I agreed?
    Her: Whatever.
    Me: Dude just calm down. It's no big deal.
    Her: Omg shut the f*** up. It wasnt a big deal until you said that.
    Me: Gee, thanks a lot.
    Her: F*** off. Dont talk to me.

    Thats it.
    That happened this morning. Advice/comments are appreciated.

  • StandStill
    14 years ago

    Sounds like she's struggling with something else and is taking it out on you. sit down and talk to her.

  • Elizabeth
    14 years ago

    ^ It appears to sound like exactly that. Don't take it to the heart. Just ask her about it before you do.

  • Krista
    14 years ago

    Problem is, she refuses to talk to me...
    And idk why.

  • Krista
    14 years ago

    So I told her I was sorry, and she told me I am stupid and annoying, we aren't friends, and she's not going to waste her time over some worthless drama.

    I've said nothing to her since the day it happened. Idk now.
    :/

  • StandStill
    14 years ago

    So go find a real friend, dear.

  • chind
    14 years ago

    Are you for real ?
    that is the stupidest reason , ever !
    if she doesnt want to talk to you , then dont talk to her either
    you dont need her as a friend anyway .
    even when you apologised , and for what ? she should be the one to apologise to you !
    if i was you , i would just ignore her and stop talking to her as well .

    :)

  • ShelbyLynne
    14 years ago

    ^^ Yup exactly that.

  • Dark Savior
    14 years ago

    A true friend would understand? I don't really know what to say about that. I know that there are really stupid reason to get into a fight, like the cups being put in upside down or the toilet paper facing out instead of in....but that one is just weird.

    If she was a friend then she would understand and talk with you. For real though. I think there is something else on her mind, I know sometimes when I was younger I would get mad about stupid stuff and ditch my friends to make it look like it was their fault instead of me not wanting to hang out with them...that might be the case here.

    *Shrugs*

    take it for what it is.