Breaking Down

I'm grounded. So I can't talk to my boyfriend(we live in different countries). I try to message him as much as I can...but now he doesn't know if he loves me. A boy who asked me to marry him...just a few weeks ago...is now ready to leave because he can't talk to me. I told him that I can force him to stay with me. That I just want him to be happy...even if it's not with me. But I don't know how I can ever be happy again. Please don't tell me that I'm young and that there are other fish in the sea. That won't help my heart. That won't heal these re-opened scars. I don't have anyone but him in my life and I need to get better before he leaves me. Please help me. Thank you. Shanik

If it only takes being grounded to make him question his "love" how much love could there have been? If you want to be happy, you will, if you don't, well you're already there.

^TRUE^

you are the only one who can really judge whether or not you are going to be happy. You are just putting it all on him. If he is questioning his love for you because you are grounded then there isn't really anything there. And how are you supposed to get married if you live in 2 different countries??

I agree with all three posts above

Thanks for your advice/comments.

I do...I haven't heard from him in a few days..so I'm guessing he broke up with me. Oh well. I was honest with him...I trusted him. i'll be more careful new time.

Just dont let this incident bring u totally down. u have ur whole life ahead and if he doesnt want to be a part of it then its his problem.

just think, what if u guys did get married and u wer living with each other and then he gets mad at you and then he questions his love.. its better to see the true colors now then later.

Yea that's why I'm not as upset. i mean I centered my whole life around him. I was there for him...always and he couldn't be there for me. Just this once. I don't feel bad because I kept my promises. I didn't lie about loving him. I didn't break his heart so I'm okay now. He's the one falling apart.I've already fallen and gotten back up.

Good for you, thats the right attitude. :)

I think it's funny how people love you when you're gone. My ex is saying he loves me again... and I'm laughing on the inside because it's to late for that and he doesn't understand that I'm not give him my heart so he can play football with it.