Down With the Sickness

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Well so here's a long complicated story...
Everyone in my family is adopted
And my older sister Molly recently came in contact with her biological family.
She found out that she had a 16 year old cousin living near where i live and im 15 so she told me about him
so the sotry is I am not related to my older sister molly in anyway at all but for some reason she thinks it's wrong that I'm dating him because we are supposedly "technically realted" which is b.s. because we are not in anyway
and she hates me for it
idk what to do...
I love him
but I love my sister

That's no reason to hate you for. You are after all her sister and have been that way for quite some time, she shouldn't act that way. Sometimes we develop strange feelings because of irrational fear, maybe she's afraid that if you brake up with him later on that they might loose connection and she'll end up without her cosin. Talk to her about it and find out why she doesn't approve of your relationship and you might come to a conclution.

Hmm...

Well idk what is going through her mind because it bothers me that I have been her sister since I was 5 and all of a sudden she meets her real family and they are WAY more important to her. I feel like, like always she is jealous becasue she doesnt always have everybody's attention 100% of the time and no matter what she makes everything about herself that we are going out is because we just want to hurt her and has nothing to do with the fact that we are happy.