Solution for gettin over a guy U totally love??

I need help people. plz help

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Ditto.

If you truly love this guy then I highly doubt you'll get over him, you can only learn to let go & move on without him. However, if you don't truly love him, then I guess it'll be easier said than done. Either way, only time will tell.

There isn't really a solution. You really just figure it out yourself. Time does help but some people never get over the one they love. You just have to learn to MOVE ON and possibly, someday, get over him. You could also just try to distract yourself because staying home and thinking about him will not help! Go out and have some fun. Life's too short. Good luck.

Well, what worked for me with my ex wife is that every time i thought about her, i forced myself to think of all the things that pissed me off about her, and, 4 months later, here i am, not over her, but still going through life with a smile and a thankful heart that i still have the people that love me, like my mom and my siblings. Remeber, relationships will come and go, but family is forever

Try to keep yourself busy,do things that you really enjoy,go out with your friends and have fun.

Remember that you are strong and you can get over him,it's not the end of the world.

and when you feel that you'll get depressed or sad,don't stay alone,mingle with people.

Try not to bring him in every conversation you have with your friends,talking about him is an unhealthy thing.

Good luck.

Thanx for the help...i guess. its not like its only been a month ppl, its been a year! and i dont sit by myself and solk, and i dont talk about him. this is this first time in AGES that ive spoken about him. luv just sucks.

Time...like alot of ppl said...its hard..i think alot of ppl hve gone through it...it will all be ok :]

Love can suck, but it is better to have loved, then to never love at all....I think that is how the saying goes. Time does heal, keeping busy, and just falling in love with another. There must be some guy out there willing to sweep you off your feet...(sorry for that cliche/corny phrase there) Hope that helps.

Heres my two cents in this, U love him, out of some reason u want to move on, breathe in and out and embrace the feeling of how much ur missing him or just cant get him out of ur head, and then after u embrace it... go out with your friends.... if not go out with your cousins somebody and have the time of your life... meet new people... and understand yeah i still got feelings but they are slowly fading away its all about the positive thinking mindset

Also add up everyones advice like relationships come and go but family is forever or having fun just add up everyones two cents and eventually you get 50 cents haha

LOL....thanx. ya 2 cents worth was worth it LMAO.

Time obviously doesnt work in every breakup

"Thanx for the help...i guess. its not like its only been a month ppl, its been a year! and i dont sit by myself and solk, and i dont talk about him. this is this first time in AGES that ive spoken about him. luv just sucks."

^ NO ONE said, nor even implied, that you were being over-dramatic, that it was only puppy-love or that you need to get over it. You didn't spare us these details before, so all we had to go by was what we know & have learned from our own similar experiences. We were just giving you the advice & ideas you were asking for. As far as I can see, we were nothing but SUPPORTIVE & OPTIMISTIC. There's no need to be ungrateful.

Time. It may sound cliche, but there's a reason for that. It's true. In time, you will realize this. You can't always just snap your fingers and--Ta da!--let go & move on, everyone's different. It's already been a year, you've come this far haven't you? So keep whatever it is you're doing (that seems to be working for you, up until now) up, be optimistic & be understanding with yourself. What I mean when I say "be understanding with yourself" is that it's natural that you may still have feelings for him, no one says that's wrong & no one says that you can't have them. However, if you give it & yourself the time, you can learn to let go of him & move on with your life. Whether those feelings go away or not, you can move on to share them with another.

:)

Mh.. a couple of beers, friends, and just turn the page. It's over, it's over. If it didn't work out, then it's for a reason.