Hehehe, It's kind of sad

I need help on how to ask a girl out...Sad I know, but I am a really shy guy and I don't know what to say. I was told to ask her to go to the movies and stuff, but how? I feel so immature at the moment. :'( Any advice would be awesome advice even if you said, "MAN UP" =P

It Depends. Do you show interest at least? you need to be a little more specific, we are "Online" sir lol

The movies?, that's something I'd do every week. If you think shes special to you, as of right now. Show it.

Be yourself, what in your mind, do you think that would make her happy and make her really feel the interest towards her?

Think about It.

There's no way to do it other than to just come out with it. If you like her, what do you have to lose? JUst say "Hey I was wondering what you were up to this weekend, I thought maybe we could catch a show or something" Or if you know any of her interests, gear it towards that.

Well, do you communicate a lot with this girl? Because I think it would be too abrupt to just go up to a girl and ask her out. But if you guys talk and you show interest and everything, just go up to her and ask her. Be confident! She's just a girl, we don't bite :P

"She's just a girl, we don't bite"

^Maybe just a little. :D

^^ Haha, is this something you've done before Bob? You're not telling me your shy now are you?

It's true though. I'll agree to & admit that. I'd be more interested in the paddle boat than the showboat... Bad analogy? Lol, you know what I mean.

In reality, if you admit this shyness of yours to this girl & the troubles you went through just to tell her as Bob said, it actually shows just how confident you are in yourself & how comfortable you are telling her. And like previously said, your not really requesting anything from her, your just stating. It's a great opener.

After that, as any gentleman would, introduce yourself. Make small talk; ask her general questions about herself (that you can use to make more in depth small talk with or to find similar interests) & tell her a little about yourself too. You know, just be genuinely interested, casual & friendly. I know that I would be more interested in someone who was genuinely interested, casual & friendly than I would be with someone who came on strong.

Play cool, and try to get her to spill (for example) where her favorite place to get coffee, favorite place to eat out, favorite movie that's come to theaters or favorite scenery is. Then, subtly imply that the two of you should continue talking over coffee, diner, a movie or a walk.

:)

"...before she finishes, take off...I'm naked...Lmao..."

^ Lmao, then is that right around the time she says, "Not again. You know, when you come in with the common flu, you're not required to take off your cloths." *giggle*

Very good question.. i've always been shy, but asking a girl out, just seems to come out naturaly in a conversation lol .
Just be natural, and if the girl is interested in you, she'll even ask to see you again ^^

Hehe, thanks for the advice guys. I used a mix of the confidence and shyness thing and she said no, but I still felt okay with myself because I didn't really straight out ask. I "covered all angles" lol. ty very much everyone.

Hey, well at least you tried
happens, like they said, doesn't really matter ^^

LOL better luck next time.