3 people i love - how can i choose??

Omg!! delemia!!

ok there are 3 guys that i reali like and they reali like me... 1 is my bf and 2 are best friends.... the first guy wants me to choose him. the other guy, i dnt no about but he is a get guy... how do i possibly choose????!!!!????!!!!

Looks like one big love quadrangle. Well do you think you should choose your best friend, I mean you don't won't to take a chance and mess things up with him. Since 2 are best friends then you probably shouldn't go for that one either, especially if both of them likes you. If you choose one of the best friends they may not get along like they use to since they both had a crush on you. Now with that being said that leaves the third guy, who you don't know about, so should you take your chances. Probably. Just read what I've wrote, but still in the end, choose the one your heart calls for the most.

Impossible.

Don't go out with anybody until you're sure you'd rather be with them than anyone else.

Well, if one is ALREADY your bf, then choose him, dont ruin a good thing, your best friends will both get over it Im sure. Your already with someone you like, and that likes you back, stick with it for now. Just my advice

My BF as in Best Friend... in short form... im very mature for my age... im 17 and i like someone?? it should be about how happy i am and who i like... all these guys are my very best of friends who i love as friends and kinda like, but they like me more than friends, and are fighting over each other. I dnt have to be single for the rest of my life, and im getting great grades (Mostly Bs)... So well is about 2 options: 1: choose one OR 2: pick none... so yer... i love them all... so yer... thats how it is

Euh.. i don't think you really like any of them. you can't be in love with several guys. being in love, is giving yourself to another, not 3 at the time.
so just move on, and worry about school

Ok sorry for the txting lingo... but thats how i type. Well im mature for my age coz because im not as stupid as the rest of my grade... There all my best friends because im well liked... Im asking complete strangers, because every once and a while, we all get confused and a strangers voice or an outsider can help someone else... I like these guys very much... and love just doesnt smack u in the face. U learn to love some one... if u love someone, its mostly lust... So... yer... this is kinda silly, but yer... i just wanted some help with the situation... Thanks neways! :)

"Well im mature for my age coz because im not as stupid as the rest of my grade... "

^ Maturity isn't a comparison to other people (your maturity definitely doesn't show when you brag about being or claim to be more mature than others) and isn't a reflect of other people such as your friends or family.

As Psychologist B.W. Roberts says, "one's maturity is not measured solely on introspection, but by how others view one's maturity as well... how an individual feels about himself is no more legitimate than how others feel about him, and so it is important that this individual gains a certain level of maturity as he grows older to earn the respect of others... maturity need not reflect one's actions in a social situation among well-known peers... " It takes two; you can't have one with out the other, as the saying goes.

"You learn to love someone..."

^ As is maturity. Maturity is not a "birth right" (being 17 doesn't qualify you as being or justify that you are mature), it's learned.

"I dnt have to be single for the rest of my life..."

^ No, you don't. But for now, you should.

"So well is about 2 options: 1: choose one..."

^ You don't have to "choose" one of them, you don't have to "choose" anyone, right now. Just because they like you or want to be with you doesn't mean you have to return those feelings or give them what they want. Don't be so desperate. If you try to force yourself to make a decision right now, you're only going to be setting yourself up for heartache.

Like, lust, love? Which is it? First you said you love someone, the next you like, and now you say that it's just lust. You're doing nothing but contradicting yourself. This leads me to believe not only are you confused about what the feelings you have are but how you feel about these boys. I highly doubt that you "love" all three of these boys in the way you think you do. You said it yourself, you're CONFUSED. Maybe you love them as friends, or even love one more than that, but not all three.

The mature thing for you to do would be to forget about dating any one of these boys until you know for sure how you feel about them.

Thank you so much... i need the critisum from pple... i no i dnt have to choose, or do have to choose... i just wanted help... thanks !!

Call me crazy, but Id just pick the one I wanted to get with the most? Sounds like a pretty safe bet to me.

If one your boyfriend shouldnt you choose him