I guess i was just thinking thought id share.

I've beeen thinking a lot and i've decided why even date people..I mean really at some point they always end up breaking your heart and making you feel like crap. Maybe all i need in my life is BASKETBALL! maybe thats it. It never makes me sad it constantly makes me a happy person and nothing ever brings me down. I mean even when i lose a game i know i played my hardest and thats all i can ever do. But in a relationship..Theres always something someone did wrong! or should i say i did wrong. I'm just so sick of it. AGE MEANS NOTHING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Its so stupid. Just because im 16 doesn't mean im a F***ing idiot! ughh..comment please help me out.

So, you're pretty much saying you're giving up on love?

Not everyone ends up getting their heart broken and sometimes it's GOOD that it happens because it makes you a stronger person and then you'll know what you should look for in a guy. You'll know more of what you want in life. And love isn't so bad. Love helps you heal, it's the only thing that covers up the pain and makes you feel good.

But yeah, just do what you love for now like basketball and give dating a chance when you're ready.

Sometimes I wonder why we blame our disappointments on emotions. It's not love that is disappointing you, but the people you choose to share it with. Being 16 doesn't make you a complete moron (all the time) but it does mean you are probably going to go through a lot of relationship crap until you learn lessons and come to make better choices.

I agree with all of you and thank you..

" There must be something in your life other than a meaningless game."

^this though..Just because you don't play doesn't mean that its a meaningless game as someone had said about me about people playing for different reasons and to me it is more then a game..It is life. What is poetry? a bunch of words thrown together to express emotion..Basketball is a bunch of people playing to WIN! and they just as well are thrown together to express emotion. Playing basketball is the only place I can express myself and get all of the weight off of my shoulders..To some it is more then just a game..just saying.

It doesn't seem like a meaningless game to you, and there's no reason why you shouldn't be attached to basketball rather than anything else. Find your passions and focus on them - they're what make you happy. If it's basketball - awesome, go for it. Sports can be one of many things that help us express and challenge ourselves. So go along with that, now. Relationships should only come after you're secure in yourself.

Dont let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game

No i do not have a baby..I'm not having sex thank you very much..so what are you even talkin about?