Fear of kissing?

  • Jackie Martinez
    14 years ago

    Obviously Im 17 years old, I've kissed someone before, but I haven't been able to do anything besides give a lame peck since two summers ago. I've had the chance I just get scared, and chicken out. As a consequence of this I haven't been able to keep a boyfriend, which I think doesn't say anything good about them. Any ideas on why this is happening? Any solutions?

  • HisBlueEyedAngel
    14 years ago

    You should just kiss him...everyone kisses at some point in there life and you have nothing to be afraid of it is just a kiss...

  • silvershoes
    14 years ago

    I used to be intimidated by kissing anything more than a peck, but more than pecks are really very fun. You should tell your next boyfriend that you've never had a real kiss and then he'll help you.

    All it takes is to close your eyes and relax your mouth, let it drop open a centimeter and he'll guide you the rest of the way!

  • Captivat3d
    14 years ago

    I was freaked out too. But honestly, when it happens. You just go with the flow and some how, you know what to do. lol. It's not a big deal as I thought it would be. Just tell the next bf and he should understand.

  • Lost Innocence
    14 years ago

    Well first of all if they only want you to kiss then there not worth it...second of all don't sweat it i was afraid the first time i kiss some one but got over it after i was finished.....i relized i was good kisser so i was fine when ever my boyfriend were alone:D

  • ChaoticallyMe
    14 years ago

    My first kiss was painful. She was um..never mind..enough said with the "painful"
    I guess it is memorable in that sense.

    The kiss is the expression
    A little or a lot of taste for the progression
    Lips sealing love and/or lust
    Pouring all of hearts' content or simply just
    It is special, it is not
    But the sincere give it all they've got
    Sweet as candy or plain as can be
    For better or worse, here..here I kiss thee
    mmmmmuah :P

    Long story short, take Jane's advice.