*****LoVe*****

is therer something wrong with me, i liked this lad called josh and we were geting along gr8 but then his mate (ben)asked me out and i said yes, things dint work out, and well i love ben but i still like josh, but josh goes out with one of my best mates its really confusing, should i just move on and forget about them both, or should i tell them how i feel? please help me its gettin me down so bad.

lots of people say i am pretty but i dont believe them, all my mates can find boy friends without a problem, am i too fussy? ben was like my first propa relationship

am i insecure

if you feel unprettty and bad about yourself you may be insecure. if you know that you are beautiful inside and that's all that matters, then no you aren't
*~*Soldier Lover*~*

i want to beleive that i am an so many people say i am prety but if i am why dont i hav lads quein up for me , howcum i onli get lads once every blue moon (so it seems) wen all my mates hav a new boyfrend every week, it just seems if i was pretty i wudnt be single

being pretty has very little to do with having a boyfriend. Having confidence has everything to do with it.

As for Josh and Ben? Well I think you shouldn't have dumped one for another, but it happens a lot at your age.

I can't pass comment on whether you are pretty or not but it's evident you are lacking confidence.

wot can i do tho to help me?

To get more self confidence?

Start believing it when people say you're pretty for one.

Do your hair real nice, put on some make up (NOT A LOT.. just a little bit as an enhancement) make yourself feel good.

Believe in yourself.

When you're walking down the street make eye contact with random people and say hi with a smile.

thanx i will do am organisin a date wit my gals to go huntin for lads thanx xxx

Good for you, girl.

Have fun.