Do you ever...

Do you ever feel like people are not seeing you? Like when you talk to someone and meet someone all they see is your face, body, etc.? Every guy I meet only wants to sleep with me, I really don't get it. I don't dress or act like a slut so why the insinuation( spell check) that I'll obviously sleep with them? I really don't get it, so maybe a few of you could give me your thoughts on this?
Thanks

That's not you, it's just guys in general :)

Thats what I was thinking lol

It's not personal.

Guys often times think with their little head, and not the big one.

But it doesnt have a brain for a reason.

Mayb instead of taking it negatively, turn it into a positive thing - they obviously find you damn sexy girl!

I don't want to sleep with you Darkgrl...and i can see you through my scope.

Em....have you ever just called someone on this? I mean just said to them...."HEY YOU WALKING ERECTION..ARE YOU LISTENING TO ME!..the me in here!" [ place hand on heart]

They will grow out of it, never completely...but enough to hold a conversation and realize you are more then that pretty piece of flesh and bone, though in fairness, being pretty ain't all that bad.

This guy walked up to me at a club two weeks ago and was like hey, whats your name? I responded- I'm Danielle, and before you get ahead of your self I will not sleep with you, so if thats what you want, you can go away. He walked off.

It was just one of those days...

My older brother is a bouncer at a club we go to alot, he told me he was going to start a talk show called All My Friends Want to F- My Sister...lol

The attention is nice, but it gets old, I just want to find someone who sees me as a person not a sex object

lol, i just wrote a poem about that! lol yeah it pisses me off so freaking much.

xoxZoexox

There is nothing wrong with sex...but to me it doesn't feel right unless its with someone you care about.

And I don't care about some random guy with beer breath.

Im with JPM :oD
Its funny and offensive to some but speaks truth to me

yea but just cuz she's pretty doesnt mean guys have the rite 2 say that shit. they should like her 4 her not her her face or body or w/e. n cuz most guys do want girls 4 sex..u gotta look 4 1 that really does like u 4 u.

well u said that u dont dress slutty and stuff. i really find that hard to believe. no offense. really im not trying to offend anybody. but u can still dress slutty without dressing like beyonce. u must be wearing something at least a little revealing or guys wouldnt be hitting on u. bcuz if ur dressed in a long skirt thats not tight and a long sleeved sweatshirt that doesnt show ur stomach. and thats not tight. im pretty sure guys wouldnt look at u and think sex. but of course thats just my opinion

Personally its my opinion that girls need to learn how to use the power that God gave them. That doesnt mean being a slut, but it means playing off of guys weakness' (their erections).

Stop complaining and learn to deal. You just dont know how to handle it yet, you will. Or if you dont want the attention then change your appearance, wear baggy clothes, etc. But I bet you dont, because if you're hot and sexy, you want to show it. Its a girl thing, and a control thing. You may complain about it, but you would complain more if it STOPPED and you never got attention again, so take it or leave it girl.

Whether you admit this on the forum or you at least admit this to yourself, you know you like it ;)

Then why are strip clubs so popular? Why do they put pop stars scampily clad on stage?

I slightly disagree with you, but I understand what you are getting at :)

“Yeah!!! What Bob said”
What did you think you were going to find
at strip bars? Mr. Right – NOT all guys are
that way and on the other hand some girls are.
Most people at bars go there trying just to get laid.
If you are looking for a long lasting relationship
or the love of your life, it’s most likely not going
to happen at a bar. Nice guys are not all taken
and are not all gay. Boys will be boys out to play
and a man is a man, real men without game stay.

P.S. the gay thing is not a bash but what a lot of
single women say “all the good men are taken or gay”

Its not the attention that I have a problem with, its the guys looking at me like I'm a piece of ass that I can't stand.

I'm not one of those girls who complains alot- but this is really irritating.

Yes, sex is suppose to be for pleasure but for me its better if its with someone I care about- someone I am more comfortable with.

And I do appreciate what I have as far as looks and body goes, and I would probably freak out if any of that changed- I just don't want to be judged by how I look.

JPM
You are right I am being a pit of a complainer about the whole thing.

I reckon you should go out and find some sex, but instead of going for the stud find yourself a little shy guy... dance and stuff with him in front of all the stud types, take him home and shag the pants off him... just for kicks, like.

K: "That doesnt mean being a slut, but it means playing off of guys weakness' (their erections)."

That's my strength not my weakness, thank you.