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ok...i believe that you should wait til marriage for sex...because it's considered a sin in my religion, and for any of you who can relate to that...how far can you go before its a sin? i mean i know sex b4 marriage is, but what else is okay to do before its considered a sin? i mean touching...etc...i just dunno.

well if u want to talk about but i need more info

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erm im not relgious but one of my best mates is muslim and another is a strong chritian and neither believe in sex before marriage....to my knowledge actualy sex (as in penatration) is the sin and nothing else...surely ur allowed a little bit o pleasure lol...nope but as far as i know its only intercourse thats a sin so enjoy everything else lol!
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it really depends upon ur religion

i mean strict muslims ...for example ...the guy an girl can not have any pre marital relationships

if they are getting married the days befre marraige they cannot have any relationship..and must live as they were strangers to each other but many go against this. but like i said.it depends upon ur religion.

having sex before marriage in christianity and islam amounts to fornication and it is a sin.

but it depends upon ur religion in regards to touching and other things.. so thats y kinda needed more info.

well, i'm muslim (not strict at all tho) and i've talked about islam and everything with my mom cuz we're really really close and she just said that pre marital sex is a sin, and not pre marital relationships..otherwise she wouldnt let me spend time with my boyfriend. i guess what i'm asking is how far am i allowed to go before its considered a sin? i mean i have no intention of having pre marital sex, or engaging in oral sex for that matter...but i'm talking about kissing and touching. when does it become a sin, if it does?

i guess my main concern is i don't want to sin, i want to remain pure til i'm married, and if there's anything other than sex that can ruin that, i'd like to know.

i sent u an email reagarding this matter.

Quoting Gandalf

''religions defining pre-marital sex as immoral extend that to women while men are allowed to do whatever they want''

Sorry but this is not the case in Islam

Islam forbids pre-marital sex ..on both parts for men and women.Both if commit the sin are equally guilty of it ! and must carry its burden.

in my religion its a sin 2 hav sex b4 marrige(its also a sin 2 have lusting thoughts....thats just silly) but i found out i wasnt supposed 2 do this after id alredy dun it....i dont really stik 2 it,lyk i dont believe everything in the bible. its not lyk wer goin round killin people and causin deversation...so nt rly gna go hell 4 it. but if your rly strong on ur religion, stik 2 it, n gd 4 u.