does it hurt?

okay honestly, i'm only 14 and therefore not even close to being interested in having sex...but you know we have sex-ed at school and all this crap telling us about it..but does it hurt? i've heard 2 things...either it really does or it doesnt at all...feedback s'il vous plait?

it is diffrent for every one because for me it hurt and it took a while to enjoy
-Lady Jaz

It depends on if your cherry has been popped or not and what else has been... up there.

Here's a quote from a website:

"Although most studies in this area vary slightly in the findings, the average erect penis length is 5.5 to 6.5 inches, and the average circumference is 4.5 to 5 inches."

Now, get a ruler and get string. Measure 4.5-5 inches and then look at how big that is when you make it a circle. For a virgin, that size looks pretty daunting, correct? Now, if you're willing to explore yourself down there see how comftorable you are with one finger, two, etc. you can see how nervous you should be about your first time.

Keep in mind, you are actually pretty flexable down there. If you are lubed up enough (it's better if it's natural, but KY or astroglide, etc. work too) there shouldnt be a big problem regardless. If you are dry and trying to stick anything up there *OUCH.

Just dont worry too much. You'll be fine. Everyone has a first time.

holy crap 5 inches? thats like 4 of my fingers! *sigh* more reasons to wait....

It's probably more like 3 fingers.

Keep in mind that it's circumference, not length. 5 inches sounds like a lot, but it's not too big if you realize it's round, first of all, and second of all, you will be lubed up and turned on. Your vaginal muscles are actually very adaptable.

I am in no way encouraging you to have sex. I just dont want you to be scared. Wait until you are ready, emotionally, physically, mentally, the whole bit.

Just be educated.

yeah don't worry i'm plenty educated...school doesnt really teach you anything, but i'm really close to my mom and she's told me everything about, well everything...execpt that obviously... so i have the facts...still, ouch. but i guess lube would help...but i still can't get over the breaking of the skin. ow. once again, more reasons to wait.

Good choice.