i need help with my friend.....

she is in love with this guy and she cant seem to get a hold of him. she is a big wreck right now and she asked me to help her and i dont know what to do. can some one help me through??

Tell her that you're there for her and you'll help her if she needs help, but that this is something she should do herself, you cannot get a hold of the guy for her. Just be there for her and support her.

but thats the problem she wants her love (the guy she is in love with) to help her not me. she just asked me to see what i could do and i decided to come here and ask for help on this matter.

she wants the guy to help her in what? help her love him?? haha, this is so confusing!! Or help the guy love her?

im not sure she was crying about it and maybe i will have something more later.

Hmmm.
Well because it's so confusing for me to understand what you mean, I don't think you know what she means either. Just, for now, tell her that you don't know how to help her. :) :) :)

ok i will do hopefully i will know more later today. thanks for your help so far.

You're welcome. :)