Not the same color as me!

I'm dating a guy and he is black and I'm white. I've been hiding it from my dad because he is against white and black relationships. Anyways he says all I can do is be friends with black people. But, I've been in a relationship with this "black" guy for over a month. I asked my dad what he would do if I dated a black guy and he said he would disown me because it makes the family "look bad." My dad is so paranoid. I don't know how long I can hide this, my dad will litterally disown me probaly!
I don't know what to do, should I stop dating him, or do want I think is right and date any color I want?
I tell me dad where all the samething, we bleed the same color, we just have different skin complextions, we all have feelings etc.
My dad would kill me if he found out.
Any suggestions?

i think you should tell him that you and the guy are to gehter and go from there

Thank Ya'll!

Bob I loved your poem.
I don't know how to explain it to my dad, he won't let me see him if I do tell him!

hows it going??? did u tell him yet??

Thats sick, your dad needs to be dragged kicking and screaming into this century. Never value prejudices regardless of who is holding them.

I've had relationships with people from other races. I only value people who appreciate this and don't start throwing their weight and opinions around.

race should never be a problem. no matter what. your dad needs to wake up. but i know what you mean. i'm asian and yall know how bad we can get. family and culture-wise, they think you're a wh*re/sluT if you're even walking around talking with a white guy (i'm really attracted to them good white boys lol) and it just gets horrible. but whenever anyone tries to talk trash about other races, i just walk away. it's not right.

tell your dad that you love him (if you do) and there is nothing he can do about it. he shouldnt be racist!!! That is so slack!! If he doesnt accept your guy for him not his colour then hes being stupid!
Hayley-Ree
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