Messing With My Head Or Seriously Concerned?? *PLEASE READ*

please if you have time, read this. I really need advice!!

Okay I have a friend, a very close friend. And this is what happened.... Alot of shit happened to me and I was really down. Well I fell onto her and trusted her like a sister. She caught me and helped me out for a little bit, Then just suddenly dropped me. I was strong enough back then to pick myself up... Later I was down Again, REALLY down. So she told me to fall on her again and I did. She held me a little bit, and we had some good talks. She really helped me. Then she dropped me... I couldn't pick myself up, I was so close to death(I know that means I'm weak, but I'm strong enough to admit it). So another friend helped me backt o my feet... I was Fine... Then my "sister"(the first friend) Emailed me today. Again, one of her LONG heartfelt emails... It brings back all the memories.
She hurt me. Is she playing with my head? Thinking she can just help me every now and then, then walk away and expect me to be okay with that?? Or is she really concerned?.... And heres the bigger question, Do I email her back???

Some please help!!

Somebody? I have to see her tomorrow and I dont know what I should do!!

Oh my, that is difficult. So she helps you, but then leaves you correct? Sounds to me like she isn't much of a friend. But on the same note, why would she send you an e-mail if she didn't care? I don't know what to say. I would probably just see her and see what she has to say.

Kalika

So I shouldn't email her and just wait till tomorrow to see what she says?

Well it all depends on what the e-mail said.

Kalika

*sigh* still dont know what to do, Thanks Kalika tho... Anyone else??

No worries, if you want to just send her an e-mail saying exactly how you feel, and judging on how she reacts, you can tell if she's a real friend or not.

Well anytime,

Kalika

You should e-mail her back. Maybe she was feeling a little scared... one of my friends runs away when i have huge problems... but it doesn't make her any less of a friend.

i'm in the same exact situation...well almost lol...she didn't send me an email....but we're talking again and she said she was sorry, and that she was just freaked out by what i said in a note i gave her....but now she's helping me again, i just hope it stays that way and she doesn't leave me again....but you should email her back, everyone makes mistakes right??

-brittnay-

Ive been in a similar situation. The person I trusted most when I was going through a really bad patch seemed to understand and they were so kind to me at first. After a while though I guess they got sick of trying to help me and started making fun of my problems instead. It hurt so much especially as they were pretty serious problems aswell. Now I dont know wether to trust them again or not. They gave me some good advice before but now...well I dont know if its safe to tell them anything anymore. Anyway....its kinda the same thing....well not really but hey.
I think you should email her back but if she does it again you should forget about her and find some new friends who wont let you down.

She's messing with your head and from what i gather, she enjoys it. Drop her quick. Just be hi and bye friends, don't trust her greatly again like you have.
And for the person above it wasn't her sister, it was her "sister" as in they were so close they called themselves sisters. Obviously.