i need some help

  • :::HOPE:::
    19 years ago

    hey ppl
    see my boy friend is really shy in public, but speaks his mind on the computer. like in public he just says bye to me but on the computer he says i luv you and i need to see u, ur so beautiful and i dont kno what i would do w/o u, what do i do

  • InMyWorld
    19 years ago

    my boyfriend was like that for the first 2-3 months we were together...how long have you two been together? it just takes time for him to be comfortable...the closer you two become the easier it gets usually, the more you talk about, the more personal things you talk about, etc...

    how does he act when you and him are alone? does he act like the online guy or the guy in public? if he acts like the guy in public then time should definitely work, if he acts like the online guy then it could be not that hes uncomfortable with you, but just people face to face.

    sorry if that was confusing, i'm extremely tired...well if you need anything else pm me or post here, take care n good luck!
    Sara

  • Court
    19 years ago

    yea when i was going out with my boyfriend he was that way too sorta....

    just give it time...

    he finally got to where he said I luv you and gave me hugs and eventually got to where he even kissed me infront of people....

    it just takes a lil time....and really it just depends on the type of guy he is....he might just be a shy guy....even if he doesnt seem like a shy guy....he might be shy about this type of thing....

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    Yeah, some people are just more confident on the internet. Like I can't tell people things to their face. A written thing is so much easier. Don't worry it's nothing against you, it's just a confidence thing.