Much needed help!!

I can't believe you!! but, i think that you should really make boundaries between you 2 and decide where you want your relationship to go. i mean you don't want Chris to grow up with parents who hate each other but hook up all the time.

hmmm this is a toughy...i think that ur drawn to rachel for all the wrong reasons...shes a constant fixture in ur life so ur guna have to talk....set clear boundaries and if u end up in a situation where u might end up together then walk away cos u cant keep fallin into the same trap...its just routine which u need to break... i think its best that wen u see ur son u have as little contact with rachel as possible. i know it seems harsh that ur son wont see his mom n dad together but its better u be apart than together and hating until u are able to spend time together and not hook up or hate each other....i think this just needs time and understanding cos theres alot of hurt between the two of you which is going to take a long time to go away...
email me if u wana chat further, hope this helped

xxxLoUxxx

yea, jordan. be a nerd!

Bob, as usual, is right. What good will it do for you and your boy to have her back in your life?