am i alone?

you have to talk to them a bout it ... its ( in my mind) the only thing you can do ...unless you ant to feel like this forever

If they ar like that, they are not truly friends. They seem more like needy parasites... Talk to them and tell them how you feel. If there's no change, ditch them.

Tell them that what they are doing and how it makes you feel. If that doesn't work ditch them. There are better people out there! :)