So I just asked him a question and I got this response

ahha Ok so here it is , I was talking to my bf and he seemed mad I asked him if he wanted to talk , and he goes " Fuck off leave me alone do not even bother " And he goes to play his Xbox ... Now I do not know what I did , and he keeps getting mad and saying I'm the one who is being a bitch , and now I hate fighting with him , it makes me want to cry .
Anyone have any Ideas on how I can get him to calm down and talk about why he is getting so mad at me ?

Leave him to unleash his teenage angst for a while; and wait until he comes to you, otherwise don't bother unless you know enough of him to calm him down in such times...

When i get like that, it's usually not the other persons fault at all but i get frustrated and angry towards everybody, and it's best to leave me unless you know the few tricks which get me to shut the fuck up and listen.

Remember, us males react more on testostorone than our own brains, which makes us rather annoying at times.

thanks Sean , that helps ......just makes me upset thats all gah ..my head is like all gah I dunno . but if It was my fault I would like to know why

first of all even if hes mad whether at u or not he shouldn't be telling u that ur being a bitch i mean cmon its just a matter of respect. when my bf snaps at me i get quiet n if he wants to talk then i listen if not i dont bother. i ask once or twice and i can usually tell if its me or not. if ur bf wants to be all bitchy with u, u shoudnt bother just wait until he feels like talking no matter how much of a bad day he is having there is no reason to take it out on u and tell u to fuck off. he should at least apologize. my bf never cusses at me and once he did and he felt so bad. he shouldnt be cussing at u and if u know him well enough then try and get him to calm down and just get over it and tell u.

Ohh the Xbox... My friends lost boyfriends when Halo2 came out. LOL. She even made a group. Anyway, just shake it off.. he's just probably pissed at the game.

LMAO Bob...

But pay attention to his advice too...cuz i agree with him lol...

Peaces.

Bob I must say that was brilliant "you become the x" nicely put dear.
~*Freak*~

the Xbox, PS2, and these new gaming computers where they play the games live online...controlling so many guys' lives nowadays...it amazes me how they'd rather sit in front of a tv then get out in the real world...*sigh*...

but as the others said, there's no excuse for him to act that way towards you. it needs to stop and/or you need to get away from him before other things happen.

its a hard one. um i think you should let him be for a while and wait to see if he comes to you and talk about it. males dont like to talk about their problems much. so jus leave it be, unless it gets really bad.
xx

hey thanks for the replys